Advice for Expectant Fathers. Part Two. - Fatherhood

We continue with tips for expectant fathers. Check Advice for Expectant Fathers. Part One

Mistake #3. Man makes scandals
Pregnant women never know what they want. At the beginning husband tries to realise her desires at the best of his power. For example, at night he goes at the far end of the city to buy pickled cucumbers and when comes back his wife says she changed her mind and needs strawberries now. Male accepts with humour all daily examinations with a view to female hair, lipstick imprints, smell of another person's perfume. He tries to understand why during intimate moments wife steps back crying ?You do not love me!'. For a male it is a difficult test. He loses his patience and in family occur scandals. He holds his own, raises his voice to a shout or declares a boycott. Home environment becomes closer to armed neutrality. He refuses any wife's proposal even if it is rational.

Advice
The pledge of favorable course of pregnancy and happy coupledom is your mildness. The woman sometimes does not understand what is happening to her. Here in all things are guilty hormones. Take care of your wife to prevent her from feeling of loneliness. Make her feel support, attention and care. Take it as a rule to kiss your wife before going at work and coming back home, ask her about how was her day. Do satisfy her requests you can afford. The best way to prevent a conflict is to embrace her with words ?I love you?.

Mistake #4. Men want a boy
Husband aggravates his wife with his desires to give birth to son or daughter. The interest towards child's sex often is stoked by relatives (?You have already two girls, when you will have a boy??, ?You need a successor?). Even if ultrasound examination made future father sad, he continues to expect something. In the day of delivery he consoles his wife ?Do not worry, the next time we will make a boy? or says ?Peter's wife yesterday gave birth to a boy?.

Advice
Such behavior offends the woman, undermines her self-confidence, produces complexes. Order for a child of particular sex and disappointment which occurs when expectations failed do affect baby negatively. Do not discuss the topic about who you want to have. You should equally rejoice the boy and the girl.

Source: http://fatherhood.typepad.com/blog/2012/07/advice-for-expectant-fathers-part-two-.html

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